July 15 (Lunar calendar: May 28), 2023 Saturday | Dawnxisoul393art
Our thoughts after watching the film《The Magic of Ordinary Days》
What is the best life for us? How should we cherish ordinary years?
What is the best life we desire? How should we cherish ordinary days? The movie "The Charm of Ordinary Days" gives us the answer. The main female character lost the news of her military boyfriend after she got pregnant. The main female character's father asked the main female character to marry the main male character, a young farm owner, in order to find a legal father for the child, which the main female character reluctantly accepted, which is just a very ordinary story, but the director portrayed the kind of days when the years are quiet and warm to each other very well. In fact, time is ordinary, but the years are full of charm, no need to deliberately portray, the quiet flow is the most precious thing in the world.
The main male character is an ordinary young farmer who never shows his feelings for the main female character because he knows that marriage is just a shelter for the main female character. However, the main male character changes himself for her silently. She likes archaeology, so he silently starts to learn archaeological knowledge, and she likes some worn-out items with no practical value, so he finds those things one by one. The most touching thing is that the main female character is pregnant with someone else's child, he not only has no prejudice but always expects and cherishes that little life.
The main female character, who has just arrived at the farm, is unfamiliar and scared of the place, she is lonely, and she is afraid of the gossip of others. She does not want to stay there long, and she hopes that the father of her child will come to pick her up. The main male character gives the main female character full respect, when he kisses her forehead, that soft, sweet kiss, like falling snowflakes, makes us feel the unprecedented warmth, perhaps this is the most beautiful and innocent look of love. All the beauty comes from treating each other sincerely. In the main male character's view, although in reality, the main female character hid in his house because she was unmarried and pregnant, he understood her embarrassment and pain.
The main male character's way of love is to accept the main female character wholeheartedly, and respect her habits, he just helps her and never bothers her, the main male character uses respect and love, uses tolerance to let the main female character discover and feel by herself little by little. The main female character's previous life was full of melancholy and worries. Although ideals and pursuits could excite her, the peace of reality nourished her body and mind. The love in the movie is not perfect, the life inside is ordinary and common, but it gives a warm feeling. There is always a better way to deal with the pain of life in this world, and forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself.
This movie takes us into a wide space to enjoy the gift of life. The thoughtful and gentle male main characters, the warm and loving sister's family, and the kind-hearted country people simply cannot make us believe the movie's World War II background. The movie shows us another way to face the suffering of life, that is love and tolerance, love the land under our feet, love the people around us, as long as we are willing to find love, create love, as long as we are willing to embrace the world, feel everything in the ordinary, beauty will definitely exist. The ordinary years have the security we long for, the happiness we can see and feel.
How many times have we longed to go farther to see more beautiful scenery, thinking that is the colorful life, how many times have we woke up in a dream and asked ourselves in a panic, how can we achieve a wonderful life without pursuing our dreams, only when the beauty of ordinary years is captured by us, only when the gift of earth and sunshine touches us, our acquisition is the most solid and reliable. No matter how glorious our past is, returning to the ordinary is the inevitable final destination for each of us, they are so generous, so true, and unfailing. The greatest feeling this movie gives us is warmth, reminding us of the many warm moments we once experienced and feeling how beautiful it is to enjoy the ordinary years.
What is the best life for us? How should we cherish the ordinary years?
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