April 26 (Lunar calendar: March 7), 2023 Wednesday | Dawnxisoul393art
《Pink Koi - Romance》, painted by dawnxisoul393
First Part: Romantic People and Romantic Women
In our acrylic painting "Pink Koi Fishes - Romance", the pink koi fishes represent romance. They bring love, strength, and spiritual healing to our hearts. Two pink koi fishes swimming through their own life path with love and care for each other, tell their story of romantic patience, compassion, and understanding. They are listening to each other with their hearts. They know the true meaning of romantic love, overcoming life's obstacles along the way, and enjoying the uplifting intimacy and devotion. Maybe our hearts have been burned, filled with sadness, anger, fear ... Maybe we put our hearts into someone or something, but we feel our efforts have been abandoned or treated as giveaways. The pink koi fishes are here with us, soothing our hearts with love and bringing them into peace.
The romantic sentiment is also an emotion that has nothing to do with function or purpose, it deviates from the mundane, rises from the bitter world, and returns to space like a meteorite, leaving behind surprise, admiration, gratitude, and nostalgia. In terms of the essence of cultural spirit, romance is the poetry of life and the cultural interest and spiritual atmosphere of the times, the spiritual value pursued by people's lives and hearts. Romance has nothing to do with looks but is tied to beauty, that is a beautiful mood, that is an incomparable sweetness and warmth from the heart. The pink koi fishes remind us of ourselves that our lives are as wonderful as the romantic pink koi fishes, our love is as beautiful as the romantic pink koi fishes, and our romantic love will enter our lives and stay forever.
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The romance of man, which is full of natural features, it has inner healing energy ... Romantic people's romantic feelings can be unexpected, and the attention of romantics often shifts to the beautiful things that the world has missed. The unattainable has a great allure for romantics, and romantics always look far away. The efficiency of romantic people's work is closely related to the mood of romantic people at the time they do it. Many romantic people go to work just to support their families, and their real identity may be artists or musicians. Many men judge romantic women by their appearance, but after being with the romantic women, they will discover that true beauty comes from the nurturing of the romantic women's souls. Time will make a woman's face grow old, but attractive romantic woman, just like a glass of wine, the longer the taste the better.
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For a truly romantic man, when a romantic woman shows her positive and optimistic side in the face of hardship, he will have the urge to protect this romantic woman. Such romantic women, not only themselves full of positive energy, but will also affect the people around them. Romantic women will use their optimism and laugh to tell everyone that the world is actually still very beautiful. The romantic woman who loves to laugh, luck is not bad. Romantic men are not resistant to every optimistic and smiling romantic woman, she doesn't have to look beautiful, as long as she smiles sweetly enough. Women with romantic feelings are usually sensual and often have an unusually rich imagination, they will take an ordinary scene or thing in life, rub it into their colorful fantasy world, making it instantly vivid and vibrant. In their eyes, everything is full of purity, full of beauty.
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The romantic woman is simple, as simple as a cup of transparent water， her heart, even though the storms of the years, will still be like a naive little girl.
In the eyes of romantic women, the flowers will be always brilliant, the sky will be always azure. Women with romantic feelings are gentle, they are also happy, they are happy because of the extraordinary. Life does not lack romance, what is lacking is a heart to discover romance. Romantic women are energetic and happy because of romance. Romance is a state of mind, and a woman who knows how to be romantic is the most affectionate woman. There is some basis for using the horoscope to determine the character of a woman with romantic feelings, because the season and date of a person's birth may have some influence on that person. Romantic women are more or less interested in the analysis and research related to themselves, this forms a psychological implication, subconsciously telling themselves that their characters should be like this. After a long time, the horoscope will have a certain influence on their characters.
But many romantic women who share the same sign also have many differences between them. Because every romantic woman is different, romantic women have their own respective living environment, have their own respective relatives and friends, have their own respective favorite books, have their own different thinking and understanding of many things, in short, many factors will affect their characters. We can't judge a romantic woman's character based on the horoscope alone. Libra romantic women will be living more sober, more sensible people. They have a clearer logical order in their minds for their lives, for their feelings. Libra romantic women's hearts actually have a more romantic love pursuit. They also have a yearning, have expectations. Looking forward to their beloveds, one day stepping on a colorful cloud to their side.
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Expect in their most needy most downtime, there is a person timely appear in their side, protect themselves, give their own enough security. Libra women are more rational than women of other signs. They dare to dream and dare to think and dare to do, but when they wake up from the dream, they can also go with the natural back to their own reality. Pisces romantic women more imaginary plot, such as the domineering president in love with their own romantic drama. And to such a plot, in fact, many people have had, but really willing to believe in may only Pisces romantic women, sometimes have romantic feelings, have fantasies about their lives is not a bad thing. But we need to consider the problem based on reality, like Pisces romantic women so simple and ignorant people, in the relationship is often gullible.
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Love needs to grasp fate, but more to stay awake. However, in the heart of Pisces romantic women, if love is a garden, then romance may be the delicate and beautiful blossom, even if all the beauty of a flash, but also once was the most beautiful scenery in the garden. Cancer romantic women are soft-hearted and imaginative people, sensuality is one of their characteristics. The love that Cancer desires are like the flowers that bloom everywhere in the spring, the spring breeze that comes in the face, and the softness that can be felt all the time. They fantasize that in the world of feelings only themselves and their lovers, playing the roles of princes and princesses. Cancerians are relatively insecure inside, so they tend to keep their imaginations in their heads rather than putting them into practice. While sensual, fantasy, Cancer romantic women never lack the reality of reason or a certain pessimism.
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However, everyone has the right to be qualified to harvest sweet love, Cancer romantic women also have the opportunity to meet their own prince charming.
Second Part: Attractive Romantic Men :
Romantic men prefer creative work and work in a unique way. Careers related to emotions can be very attractive to romantic men. Romantic men strive to create a positive environment for meaningful expression. Romantic men do not care to sell their souls for superficial glory or profit. Romantic men want their professional lives to reflect the true values of the men, and in the romantic males‘ view, mundane jobs in bland environments are disasters. Romantic men believe that there is always something missing in the world, and that romantic men can have these things for themselves. Romantic men cherish their love and emotions, so they want to nourish them and express them in the most beautiful and special way. Romantic men swing on sincere swings.
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Swinging is a pilgrimage to the sky, the higher they swing, the closer they are to the sky so that the sky hears the hearts of romantic men praying to the sky so that the sky knows the love of romantic men for happiness. Romantic men always want to express themselves in the form of beauty and lead a life full of fantasy, self-awareness, and constant self-exploration. These abilities are what give the romantic males the power to create monumental works. Romantic men want to create unique and distinctive images and works, so they are constantly self-reflective. The romantic males believe that the energy to create all good things is in themselves, so the romantic males strive to transcend the ordinary in order to achieve the meaning of self-existence. We can see the see-saw of romantic men's thinking, with self-awareness on one side and self-transcendence on the other, men with romantic feelings are swinging and balancing themselves on both sides of this scale of life.
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If love is a starry night sky, then romance may be the shooting star that crosses the sky, brief and gorgeous but makes people excited inside. If love is a Dutch garden, then the romantic male may be the huge windmill for water irrigation in the garden, even if all the beauty in the garden is disappearing, it is still the most beautiful scenery in the garden. A young romantic woman complained about her husband, believing that although her husband was good at everything and very family-oriented, he just couldn't read women's minds and didn't know how to be romantic. In fact, since he is good at everything, which is a romance in itself, because he really loves her, he cannot learn the kind of romance she expects. The romantic man who really loves the romantic woman is more focused on creating a better life for the romantic woman. Indeed, men with romantic feelings and romantic women have different interpretations of romance.
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Romance in the mind of a romantic woman may be more about surprises. In fact, the content is more important than the form, and the most important thing is to see if her lover puts a lot of effort into her. A romantic man who really loves a romantic woman is more willing to spend his limited energy on creating a better living environment for his lover, so he often neglects to put more thought into the little things that make a romantic woman happy. But because of this, it also means that the romantic man is dedicated to his lover and family. A romantic man may not have too many love words or vows, but it slowly changes the quality of life of a romantic woman in terms of food, clothing, and shelter, the romantic woman even at some stage did not realize this but sooner or later will experience this deep love in the memories.
Romance is an act of icing on the cake, not the essence of love. Just as it is a beautiful and romantic thing to have a shooting star in the sky, but if there are shooting stars and meteorites everywhere, it is like facing the end of the world. Although the blip is beautiful, the beauty in a moment of bloom, but people ignore the bloom after the lonely and lonely withering, romance is not the real essence of love. If a romantic woman deliberately chases after the appearance of romance, she is not destined to reap the essence of happiness, because this is fundamentally an act of putting the cart before the horse. Candlelight dinners and roses are certainly warm and beautiful, but they are beautiful in a moment or a very short moment, while the ultimate purpose of love is to be together for life. Without the willingness to give and appreciate, all interactions and attachments are bitter and painful. True happiness is not what we get, but what we give.
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Happiness is never a gift from the outside world, but a warm light within ourselves. When we love to the depths, we understand the true meaning of love, which is the companionship of sharing the pain. How deep the love is, how warm the action is. If one loves to the point of forgetfulness, one cares about everything about the other person, appreciates everything about the other person, and stays with the other person for life. Romantic men may be more aware of this than romantic women, however, a marriage without fleeting beauty and romance is also less than perfect. A romantic man who truly loves a romantic woman will at least listen to his lover and make some changes in himself, even if he cannot learn the "romance" that a romantic woman expects. Romantic men are not ignorant of romance, but they incorporate romance into their lives.
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Romance does not have to be only roses, wine, flowers, and snow, maybe gently covering his lover on a cold winter night, or quietly kissing his lover's cheek while she sleeps, any action that can make his lover feel warm should be romantic. Men's romance is often embedded in the details of life, because in the eyes of romantic men, true love should not be limited to the form, but should focus on the content, only in reality for the romantic women to do something to make them feel comfortable and warm, is the most real interpretation and expression of romantic love. Romantic women may as well look for romantic shadows that have been neglected in the details of life before complaining that men don't know romance. Perhaps the moment a romantic woman feels the love of a romantic man, her inner worries and grievances will dissipate.
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Love is the gift given by nature, love is the joy brought by beauty, love is the miracle created by wisdom, those who lack love desire to get love, those who have love cherish love. The root of what makes love so magical is that all the romance has been incorporated into pure love. Romantic women sometimes complain that their lovers don't know how to be romantic, in fact, some romantic men don't know how to create a romantic atmosphere in the way that romantic women expect. If romantic women can stand in the perspective of life to feel the feelings of romantic men, one day, they will find that the romance they have been waiting for, has long existed around them. In the emotional world, the characteristic of mood can be said to be quite rare, and it will always occupy a certain advantage in emotion. Anyone yearns for exciting love, romance before flowers and under the moon, and romantic women with emotional appeal will always feel different hearts.
A woman with a moody romance, for the judgment of romantic men, first of all, have their own aesthetics, have their own judgment, will not just listen to the ideas of others, never blindly follow.
Third Part: Romantic Parents and Romantic Daughters
At the time of painting this "Pink Koi Fishes - Romantic" picture, Doris was already pregnant with our daughter, and we started to do some research about the romantic love of daughters to their parents and parents to their daughters. As society grows and times progress, we as parents are equally happy when there is a new member of the family, whether the baby is a son or a daughter. Moreover, in this era, most of the elderly have abandoned the concept of son preference, and children are meticulously taken care of by us and the older generation. However, when it comes to raising children, there should be different ways of raising children because of the difference in gender. Especially when the children grow up, girls and boys will feel really different about their parents. The difference between raising girls and raising boys as reflected in a parents' romantic love is that parents worry about their children differently.
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When the children are young, girls are more obedient and worry less than boys. But when the children are older, the parents worry more about the girls' safety and that they will be bullied outside the home, and the parents will call more often to ask how their daughters are doing. When both daughters and sons reach the age of love, the daughters and sons think differently inside their parents' minds. The boys' parents are happy in every other way, except for being a little stressed about the finances. After all, it means that the sons are old enough to get wives. But the daughters' parents have different ideas. Will they be cheated? Will the daughters be bullied in their mothers-in-law's houses in the future? Parents will feel differently when their daughters and sons get married. Parents often feel happy when their sons grow up and get married because, in the minds of many parents in Asia, their sons will still live with them.
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Even though they will live alone for a while when they are just married, and they will choose to live with their parents again in the future when their parents are older. So when parents treat their sons, they will choose to trust their sons' choices. The marriage of daughters is the marriage of daughters to other people's families, with fewer family members in the daily life of the parents. Parents will constantly worry about whether their daughters' lives are going to be good or bad. Daughters are like pearls in their parents' hands, carefully cultivated flowers, parents look forward to the day when the flowers bloom until they are picked by others, and there is inevitably some sense of loss in their hearts. In addition, boys will put their jobs first when they get married. But daughters' minds are more sensitive, and daughters will come home more often than sons. Before coming home, daughters always call their parents to ask them what they need for daily necessities. If the parents need something, the daughter will buy it and bring it back.
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They will tell their parents some trivial things in their life, and they are happy to share with their parents about any positive or negative problems at work so that their parents will have some understanding of their situation. It will be easier for their daughters if they need help with some problems. Girls and boys have different interests and hobbies. Girls like to stay at home or go shopping with their parents and buy some delicate little things. Girls and boys grow up differently and the rebellious period of children is different. Girls are more emotional. Girls develop faster than boys, so girls tend to be more sensitive to what is going on around them than boys. On the one hand, daughters become more suspicious of others and become more sensitive. At this stage, external factors interfere more strongly with daughters. Another manifestation of this is that they pay much attention to their appearance and begin to pay attention to the opposite sex. This is because as children grow up, they secrete hormones.
Under the influence of hormones, daughters become more conscious of their clothes and appearance and begin to wear makeup and dress up, wanting to present themselves to the opposite sex and attract their attention.
Whether raising a girl or a boy, parents have the same love and concern for their children. When our parents get older, we will love them as much as they love us. When we grow old, whether our children are girls or boys, they will ignite the hope we have buried in their hearts. Daughters are mothers' little coats, and daughters are fathers' little lovers from a previous life. At home, little girls are always loved and parents are afraid that they will be aggrieved. In fact, no matter how worried the romantic parents are, the daughters still have to spend their lives by themselves. Therefore, romantic parents have to let their daughters learn to solve problems alone. Everyone has their own personality, and girls should have their own principles and opinions in what they do and how they behave. If we want a girl to be assertive, we have to create opportunities for her to make her own decisions when she is young, constantly exercise her, and let her learn to refuse when faced with something she doesn't like.
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This way, our daughter will have her own ideas from a young age, and when she grows up, she will be more confident. After getting married, she also knows how to let herself have the initiative and how to do things right in order to be more likely to be favored by the man's family. In the eyes of some parents, daughters will always be children. They also do not require their daughters to learn to do housework, and even worry that their daughters will be aggrieved if they do housework in the future after they get married. In fact, regarding housework, both men and women should be able to do it, because in this society nowadays, everyone must have the ability to live independently to be able to keep up with the times. On the other hand, daughters should not just find men to marry because they are old enough, but should marry because of true love. After marriage, daughters should have their own jobs, own incomes can share the financial pressures of the families, and the families will be happier. Facing various difficulties in life, daughters should have a positive and optimistic attitude.
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When daughters suffer some setbacks, parents need to give them encouragement, so that daughters have stronger self-confidence, more courage to face various difficulties, to solve problems. When our daughters grow up, they will be able to face the setbacks in love and the collisions in marriage positively and optimistically. As the saying goes, filial piety is a very important thing, in the future, daughters will be filial to their parents-in-law after they get married, and parents can be more at ease. Filial daughters-in-law are also more popular, also conducive to the harmony and happiness of family life. The couples can also understand each other, support each other, for the good life efforts, married life will also be very good, sharing precious moments together even in the midst of a busy life. The pink koi fishes also represent the daughters in the families. Daughters bring joy and happiness to the families and they make the world a better place. When romantic parents give them the right kind of love, they have the magic to make us feel happier and more energetic.
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There are many ways parents can show their daughters the love of their parents, such as making eye contact, smiling at them, and praising them often. When parents have loving daughters, parents will find it easier to remember that love is at the heart of everything. One way to enjoy a romantic relationship is to first enjoy a romantic moment with ourselves. Pick up a fragrant flower and feel the joy it brings, light a candle, sip a cup of tea, nibble on a pile of your favorite chocolate, or read a wonderful book. Cherish beautiful romantic moments and enjoy the sweetness of everyday moments, that's where romance stays. Imagine how happy and peaceful it would be if the heart could be like a little bird chirping a beautiful song. This may be done not only for yourself, but also for the special people in your life.
If we are in a significant relationship, expressing our romantic love for those dearest to us lets those we love know they are cared for, respected and supported by us.
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Pink Koi Fish — Romance
(one of our spiritual healing thoughts)
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