May 30 (Lunar calendar: April 12), 2023 Tuesday | Dawnxisoul393art

《The Innocent Koi - Our Inner Child》Painted by dawnxisoul393

A gentle koi is looking for food in the water with a lovely little guy. In the clear vortex, the purple water light representing nobility, mystery, profundity, maturity, romance, and courage flickers around them. They encourage us to care about our inner children, give them a space to play and grow, and let them help us realize our dreams in a place of pure love. This exciting inner child is our best friend and supporter. It will help us create many new ideas, teach us to develop positive relationships, and bring us a big circle of friends. But only when our inner child feels safe and happy can he or she grow up healthily and give full play to his or her energy. Yes, there is a naive and beautiful child in each of us. Although our physical age has increased, our psychological subconscious age may not grow up with it.

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Our inner children yearn for love and care. He or she may be energetic and imaginative, but he or she may be fragile, sensitive, and insecure. A person's real maturity is related to the growth of the inner child. We usually live in peace with the inner child, but once we encounter setbacks, our inner child will show up. Maybe, we will lose our reason, we may be anxious, panic and have no self-confidence, and we may be trapped in a place without any hope and inspiration, we're busy with our careers every day and have no time to re-examine myself. But it is also possible that our inner children believe that miracles can happen every day and everywhere. In short, our inner children are trying to attract our attention. Perhaps this inner child is ready to discover a new world that has never been experienced before.

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Our souls yearn for a better new day, a better new start, a better new self. If we keep ignoring our inner children, our inner children will be hurt. Every day, a person and a car shuttle through the huge city. Slowly, we gradually lost our enthusiasm for everything. In the evening, when we set foot on the way home, we will find that there is still a child-like expectation in our hearts, warm and happy. We will find that we are warmly expected and deeply loved. For people who play different roles, life has a set of silent and serious rules, which are tough and inviolable. Long before we grow up, we are told what kind of people we will become. Without exception, we were cut neatly and orderly. We will never be charming to the people around us, nor will we express our feelings and preferences like children.

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We go through different periods of life, and then grow old, which seems to be an irreversible process. However, every stage of our life will not disappear, nor will it leave no trace. Instead, the past will condense and remain in our bodies in a very hidden way. When the right opportunities arise, they will surface. Childhood experience is a key factor in our life growth. What has a great impact on our childhood is our own family, that is, the family before our marriage. This kind of family environment has a great influence on our growth and character cultivation. Doting parents see their children as another self. On the surface, what they give their children is infinite, but in fact, what they give themselves is infinite. This can be summarized as: when we were children, we were very dissatisfied. As a parent, we will be infinitely satisfied with our children to make up for our inner regret.

The reason some parents discourage or even dislike their children from solving problems independently on their own is that they are afraid their children will suffer in their independent exploration. On the surface, they do not want their children to suffer, in fact, they do not want their inner child to suffer. Either form of excessive pampering of the child is harmful to the child's development. The biggest negative effect is that children are weak in frustration. At home, parents take care of everything, but they are not able to take care of the child's future life. There is always something that the child must face alone. Proper love, first of all, parents should respect the independence of their children. Parents who truly know how to love should know how to let go, accept and be happy to see their child's self independence and self growth. The "inner child" in all of us is exposed from time to time, but this can have a positive impact or a huge negative impact.

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 In some cases, older people can suddenly become like hot-blooded youths, and adults can act like children in front of others. We never lose any of our true selves. Our true selves are just hidden in our hearts. The child in us will only appear in front of the people we love the most. When we grow up, we hardly have the opportunity to show our childish side, even in front of our parents. The truth is that both men and women cherish their inner child because that is the first form of our life and the trace of the most beautiful time we spent. Only those who love us enough are qualified to share the reproduction of our most precious memories.

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Besides love, we also need enough trust. Because our inner child is unprepared, innocent, but also very vulnerable. Releasing our childish side means giving up our self-defense ability and strategies, weakening ourselves and forcibly violating the requirements of real life. This is a real adventure for adults. When we release our childish side, we must believe that our partner deeply loves us. Therefore, we always try to check whether our lovers love us enough and trust us enough. In fact, if we want to know whether our lovers love us and trust us, we just need to see if they show us their childish side. Will they cry openly in front of us and show a pure and satisfied smile? Will they grab our snacks, come into our arms and ask for our hugs?

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If our lovers do this to us at the right time, they really love us and trust us. As we grow older, we comfort, cherish and heal our inner children. Once he or she recovers, our inner happiness, creativity, vitality and other characteristics will be expressed, and our life will be full of infinite fun and hope. Our lovers express their love to us through their inner children, release their inner pressure and meet their desire to return to childhood. If we love each other unreservedly and trust each other highly, our inner children will find a new world that we have never experienced. In the place where there was no hope and inspiration, we will liberate our hearts. We will re-examine ourselves and actively change our current situation. Our soul yearns for a better day, a new beginning, a more perfect new self. This will become a reality.

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(One of our spiritual self-healing thoughts) 

The Innocent Koi - Our Inner Child

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